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Prince Harry

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Nonfiction | Autobiography / Memoir | Adult | Published in 2023

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Part 3, Chapters 1-20Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Part 3, “Captain of My Soul”

Part 3, Chapters 1-5 Summary

On July 1, 2016, Harry is captivated by an Instagram photograph of his friend Violet with another woman. Violet tells Harry that her friend is Meghan Markle—an American actress who stars in the series Suits. As Harry leaves for a sailing event on the Isle of Wight, he receives a message from Meghan. They agree to meet at Soho House (a private members’ club). For the first time during the sailing event, Harry fears for his safety. He’s eager to return to London for his date with Meghan.

Harry’s date with Meghan is brief because he’s late and she has dinner plans. Meghan reveals that she’s an entrepreneur and activist as well as an actor. They arrange to meet on July 4 before she returns to filming in Canada.

Meghan meets Harry after watching her friend Serena Williams play at Wimbledon. Harry gives her a box of cupcakes for Independence Day, and they kiss. The couple discusses when they can see each other again. Harry persuades Meghan to meet him in Botswana.

Part 3, Chapters 6-9 Summary

Meghan joins Harry in Botswana. She shares his enthusiasm for wildlife and is unfazed by camping in the wild. When the week is over, they vow to see each other soon. Harry’s friends join him in Botswana. They spend their days on the river and evenings drinking by the campfire. Harry’s iPhone gets saturated when he falls into the river. Anxious to keep in touch with Meghan, he writes her letters, asking Teej to photograph and text them.

Part 3, Chapters 10-17 Summary

Meghan returns to London in late August, and the couple reunites at Soho House. The following day, Harry hides under the sheets when breakfast is delivered to Meghan’s room. He suggests that they invite friends to Nottingham Cottage that evening. To avoid being seen together, they arrive at the supermarket separately to buy ingredients for dinner. Meghan gets along well with Princess Eugenie, her boyfriend Jack, and his friend Charlie when they arrive for dinner. However, she becomes violently sick in the early hours of the morning from food poisoning. Harry holds her hair back, realizing that he’s in love.

As Harry and Meghan head to the airport for her to catch her flight back to Canada, they stop at Frogmore Gardens. They agree that to see each other every two weeks. Because of the bureaucracy that Harry’s traveling necessitates, the onus is on Meghan to come to England. Prince William and Kate invite Harry to dinner. Both are astonished when Harry says that he’s dating Meghan and reveal that they’re Suits fans. However, William warns Harry that a relationship with an American actress may prove difficult.

A week later, Meghan returns to England, and Harry introduces her to his family. They meet Sarah Ferguson (Fergie), who quickly teaches Meghan to curtsy before introducing her to the Queen. Afterward, Meghan reveals that she mistook the Queen’s younger son, Prince Andrew, for an assistant. Her mistake confirms Harry’s theory that she hasn’t “googled” the royal family. Harry and Meghan call on Prince William unannounced. Harry’s brother is visibly uncomfortable when Meghan hugs him. Later, Harry wonders whether his brother expected Meghan to curtsy. Afterward, Harry and Meghan visit Prince Charles and Camilla at Clarence House. Harry thinks his father is impressed with Meghan.

Part 3, Chapters 18-20 Summary

In October 2016, Harry travels to Canada to see Meghan. They attend a Halloween party, and Harry borrows actor Tom Hardy’s costume from the movie Mad Max. Several people recognize Meghan, but no one recognizes Harry. As Harry is about to return home, the press discovers that he’s dating Meghan. He warns her of the harassment that will follow but promises to keep her safe.

Prince Harry is shocked by the racism that underpins the tabloids’ stories about his biracial girlfriend. The Daily Mail incorrectly claims that Meghan was raised in a crime-ridden area of Compton, and journalist Rachel Johnson refers to her “exotic DNA.” The press also references Meghan’s divorce, questioning whether Harry can marry her. When The Sun falsely reports that Meghan had an affair with a hockey player, Harry asks the Palace lawyer to demand a retraction. The Sun ignores the request. Desperate to protect Meghan, Harry asks the Palace lawyer to sue the newspapers. However, he’s told that the best course of action is silence. Harry then reads an American article criticizing him for failing to defend his girlfriend from racism. Against advice, Harry releases a public statement. Prince Charles and Prince William rebuke him for doing so, arguing that no such action was taken when the press harassed their partners.

Meghan briefly returns to England. She goes to a food store and, despite wearing a baseball cap, is recognized. A man harasses her, and other people in the store begin to take photographs. She’s chased back to Nottingham Cottage by four men shouting her name. When Harry returns, he finds her crying.

Part 3, Chapters 1-20 Analysis

The subtitle of Part 3, “Captain of My Soul,” is again from the poem “Invictus.” While the poem’s final lines declare, “I am the master of my fate, / I am the captain of my soul” (lines 15-16), Prince Harry’s shortening of these lines suggests that Meghan is his guide and “captain.” Prince Harry feels that he’s nearing the end of his quest for true love, which began when his mother died. He expresses his desire to fill the void his mother left first in his need for surrogate mothers and then in his search for romantic love.

In Chapter 20, Harry’s description of love at first sight reveals his belief that this quest for a life partner is fulfilled. He’s attracted to Meghan’s beauty but also feels that her “energy […] wild joy and playfulness” (267) signals a kindred spirit. Meghan’s values—“Help people, do some good, be free” (272)—accord with his own. Harry’s initial introduction to Meghan reflects the way that technology and social media have influenced modern dating; Harry first connects with Meghan through Instagram, and the first months of their relationship are marked by a fervent exchange of text messages.

The memoir illustrates Harry’s tendency for mysticism when he reads significance into first seeing Meghan on his mother’s birthday. His decision to holiday with her in Botswana, his spiritual home, confirms that she’s “the one.” Harry feels that with Meghan, he can “synthesize” the fractured identities of “Harry Spike in Botswana [and] tightly wound Prince Harry in London” (280).

Harry views meeting Meghan as beginning a new phase in his life. He anticipates feeling less of an outsider in the royal family and joining his brother and sister-in-law “with an equal partner. To become a foursome” (290). Meghan’s initial introductions to friends and family go well, and Harry is delighted to learn that Prince William and Kate are Suits fans. However, Prince William has reservations about his dating Meghan, which Harry fails to see or chooses to overlook. When Prince William reacts awkwardly to Meghan’s greeting him with a hug, Harry views it as an amusing “collision of cultures” (293). However, in hindsight, he reevaluates the incident as an omen of impending conflict, underscoring two themes: The Monarchy as an Institution and Machine—because projecting a unified image is crucial—and Royal Family Dynamics and Conflict—because perceptions of protocol differ. Projecting a unified image is everything. It’s the first sign that Harry ultimately perceives no choice but to choose between love and his family.

The last chapters of this section return to the theme of The Consequences of Press Harassment and Misinformation as Harry and Meghan’s relationship becomes public knowledge. Harry experiences rage and futility at the racism, sexism, and classism with which the press targets Meghan. Rather than signaling the satisfactory, peaceful resolution of his romantic quest that he envisions, these chapters hint that Harry and Meghan’s meeting foreshadows the rift that eventually separates Prince Harry from the monarchy.

Also implicit is his fear that, like previous girlfriends, Meghan will be driven away by the media’s treatment. The scene in which Harry finds Meghan crying after being chased by reporters while visiting a supermarket signals challenging times ahead and foreshadows a deterioration in Meghan’s happiness (which culminates later, in a visually almost identical scene in Chapter 6, when Harry once again finds her crying, but this time she confesses to thoughts of death by suicide). Meghan’s treatment by the British press also draws parallels with Caroline Flack, Harry’s earlier girlfriend, who later dies by suicide after being hounded by the tabloids and tormented on social media. Unable to accept the Palace’s stance of dignified silence about the media’s treatment of Meghan, Harry’s decision to speak out begins an ongoing battle with his family over protocol.

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