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Stephen R. Covey

The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 1989

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Chapters 5-6Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Part 2: “Private Victory”

Chapter 5 Summary: “Habit 3: Put First Things First”

In this chapter, Covey encapsulates the first habit as defining yourself as the creator of your life experience. The second habit is defined as using the imagination to visualize your creation. The third habit involves manifesting your creation in the material world. You do this through proper management of yourself and your resources by putting first things first.

In contrast to the right brain activity of conceptualizing a goal, management requires the left-brain activity of organizing and planning the steps to arrive at that goal. Covey recommends the exercise of a person’s independent will to “organize and execute around priorities” (171). If we don’t identify these priorities, we can fall into a reactive state of mind by only dealing with the crisis at hand instead of planning for a meaningful future.

This chapter delves into the process of time management, and Covey recommends using a quadrant approach to distinguish what is urgent from what is truly important. He divides a day’s activities into the following four quadrants:

I) Important and urgent
II) Important but not urgent
III) Not important but urgent
IV) Not important and not urgent

Covey believes that if one is truly attempting to ingrain the third habit of putting first things first, then a person should strive to spend most of their time on activities that fall into Quadrant II. He advises that whenever possible, one should say no to activities that fall into Quadrants III and IV.

Readers who want to master this ability are told to use a fourth-generation time management tool: “The fourth-generation tool recognizes that principle. It also recognizes that the first person you need to consider in terms of effectiveness rather than efficiency is yourself (192).

The book provides a sample worksheet for how to structure one’s time in the most effective way. It is initially necessary to identify roles and select goals. Roles can be defined as individual, spouse, business, etc. Then, these roles are matched with specific goals to be accomplished. The reader should strive to pursue more Quadrant II goals in each of these roles.

Delegation is also suggested as a way to offload goals that are less important. Covey makes a distinction between gofer delegation and steward delegation. He says, “I am convinced that if stewardship delegation is done correctly, both parties will benefit and ultimately much more work will get done in much less time” (200).

The chapter concludes with an exercise that coaches the reader to identify Quadrant II activity, draw a time management matrix, and estimate the percent of time spent in each quadrant. After being reminded to delegate whenever possible, the reader is asked to use this system to manage time for a week. Repetition of the process is meant to ingrain the paradigm shift of automatically prioritizing Quadrant II activities.

Chapter 6 Summary: “Part 3: Public Victory”

Unlike the preceding chapter, this one doesn’t discuss a particular habit. It marks the dividing line between personal and public habits. As such, the author uses it to explain why personal habits must form the foundation upon which the subsequent habits in the book depend. He says, “Private Victory precedes Public Victory. Self-mastery and self-discipline are the foundation of good relationships with others” (216).

Covey stresses that a person must attain independence before mastering interdependence. He then goes on the describe the concept of an Emotional Bank Account. This is an investment that one makes in a relationship with another person. One deposits love, kindness, and understanding to build trust. As a result, short-term failings are forgiven because the overall relationship contains such a strong supply of goodwill.

The author discusses six major deposits and illustrates each with an anecdote. They are: understanding the individual, attending to the little things, keeping commitments, clarifying expectations, showing personal integrity, and apologizing sincerely when you make a withdrawal.

In addition to making frequent deposits into the Emotional Bank Account, the author says that problems can be used as opportunities to increase the size of that account as well: “I suggest that in an interdependent situation, every P problem is a PC opportunity—a chance to build the Emotional Bank Accounts that significantly affect interdependent production” (233).

Chapters 5-6 Analysis

This set of chapters marks the culmination of the personal and the beginning of the public. In Chapter 5, Covey takes the conceptual notion of proactive thought combined with visualizing end goals and shows the reader how to realize those goals through effective time management techniques. Covey introduces the key concept of time management quadrants here, and it represents yet another way in which the individual can move from dependent to independent—from reactive to proactive.

The reader is expected to use the quadrant system to identify ways that time is expended in the endless pursuit of crisis management. Moving into Quadrant II activities that are important but not urgent is another paradigm shift in thinking. More importantly, the exercise is a shift from thought to action. The reader isn’t only moving from a passive, dependent state of mind into an independent one; they are being given the tools in Chapter 5 to make concrete changes in the way they operate.

Being able to interact with the world as an independent agent paves the way to the next concept that the author wishes to introduce in Chapter 6. He makes the transition here from personal to public victories and sets the stage for the rest of the habits to follow. This transitional chapter emphasizes the importance of making the leap from independence to interdependence. We can attain private victories independently. Public victories require the cooperation of others.

The concept Covey uses to make the leap from independence to interdependence is the Emotional Bank Account. By making deposits into the EBA, a person builds trust and goodwill. Both of these are essential in order to function interdependently. It is important to note that both the quadrant time management system and use of the EBA are methods that modify behavior, not thought. The author has moved out of the realm of internal self-examination to one of effective action in the world.

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