The Art of Seduction: An Indispensible Primer on the Ultimate Form of Power

Nonfiction | Book | Adult | Published in 2001

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Ideological Context: Dark Psychology, the Dark Triad, and Manipulation

Content Warning: The source material includes references to suicide, sexual assault, domestic violence, and incest.

Dark psychology studies human behavior and how and why people use manipulation, persuasion, and other psychological strategies to impact behavior or decisions. These strategies include deception, exploitation, and coercion.

The Dark Triad, a theory created in 2002 by psychologists Delroy Paulhus and Kevin Williams, outlines three personality traits important to dark psychology: narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy. Narcissism involves exaggerated self-importance, an extreme need for admiration, and an absence of empathy (Sam, N. “Dark Psychology.” Psychology Dictionary). Machiavellianism appears in people who are detached and ignore social norms. It involves manipulation, deception, cynicism, astute understanding of interpersonal behavior, and exploitation of others. Psychopathy entails resistance societal rules and norms, an absence of empathy, bold actions, and a lack of inhibition.

Dark psychology offers methods those with Dark Triad traits might utilize to exploit another person and their weaknesses, such as emotional and psychological manipulation, gaslighting, victimization, and pretending to be innocent or unaware. These individuals also use their narcissism to appear superior and control others. Because those with Dark Triad traits lack empathy or a sense of morality, they do not feel remorse.

The Art of Seduction reflects the Dark Triad through the narcissism of so-called seducers, their goal of gaining power over a romantic interest, and the lack of remorse a seducer is expected to feel when using the book’s tactics, which are meant to exploit others’ feelings and actions for physical—and sometimes political and social—seduction. Seducers can flout societal norms and lack inhibition.

Manipulation can be used to exploit several characteristics in a person: naiveté, tendency toward self-blaming and rationalizing manipulative behavior, low self-esteem, and emotional dependency (Simon Jr., George. In Sheep’s Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People. Parkhurst Brothers, 1996). Among a manipulator’s techniques are hiding their intentions, finding a person’s weaknesses, and seduction: Manipulators know that “people who are to some extent emotionally needy and dependent…want approval, reassurance, and a sense of being valued and needed more than anything. Appearing to be attentive to these needs can be a manipulator’s ticket to incredible power over others” (Simon). Greene tells potential seducers to hide their intentions, find their interest’s weaknesses and insecurities, and make their interest dependent.

Manipulation techniques include charm, the silent treatment, coercion, reason, regression, and debasement (Braiker, Harriet B. Who’s Pulling Your Strings?: How to Break the Cycle of Manipulation and Regain Control of Your Life. McGraw-Hill, 2004). Many of these relate to Greene’s techniques, particularly charm, childhood regression, and debasement of a person by using criticism to create anxiety; further, the silent treatment parallels Greene’s proposal that a seducer become distant to entice a person.

Ideological Context: Freud’s Theories of Repression, Regression, the Unconscious, Personality, and Resistance

Many of the concepts in The Art of Seduction have a basis in Sigmund Freud, who founded psychoanalysis and developed theories about psychosexual development, the conscious and unconscious, dreams, defense mechanisms, and personality. Greene draws on many of Freud’s concepts, often offering arguments that parallel his theories. At the time of The Art of Seduction’s publication, most of Freud’s theories were considered unscientific and inaccurate, though they are often still employed as models for understanding human behavior.

Freud’s theory of personality consists of three elements: the id, ego, and superego. The id focuses on primal desires and relieving tension through pleasure, while the ego focuses on reality and controls the id and superego, and the superego controls morals and ideal behavior. One of two parts of the superego is the ego-ideal, which emphasizes what children see as ideal behavior based on their parents’ values. Greene draws on the concept of the ego-ideal in his discussion of Ego Ideal Regression, proposing that some seducers can help their romantic interests regress to ideals from their youth.

Freud’s theory of the unconscious mind involves repressed desires, impulses, and thoughts. This unconscious is part of three elements of the mind: the conscious mind, thoughts, and the preconscious mind: “Content contained in the unconscious mind is generally deemed too anxiety-provoking to be allowed in consciousness. It is maintained at an unconscious level where, according to Freud, it still influences our behavior” (Mcleod, Saul. “Freud’s Theory of the Unconscious Mind.” Simply Psychology, 24 Oct. 2023). The Art of Seduction emphasizes the unconscious mind throughout, noting how seducers tap into the unconscious minds of their objects of seduction.

Freud’s theory of defense mechanisms centers on how the ego copes with anxiety through repression, regression, and other methods. Repression involves repressing anxiety-causing, traumatic, or sexual thoughts or memories into the unconscious mind. Regression consists of returning to an earlier stage of childhood development to cope with anxiety (Hall, Calvin S. A Primer on Freudian Psychology. Penguin Group, 1999). Greene draws on both ideas, particularly how an interest’s repressed desires must be fulfilled by a seducer and how seducers can lead their interest through regression by transferring their feelings onto the seducer, much like a therapist who serves as a vessel for the transference of a patient’s feelings about someone from their past. Greene emphasizes transference involving parents.

Part of Freud’s psychosexual theory of development is the Oedipus complex, in which a boy has an unconscious sexual desire for his mother and antagonism toward his father. This theory is based on the myth of Oedipus, who killed his father and married his mother. Freud’s theory has been refuted due to lack of scientific evidence (Zang, Brandon. “Is the Oedipus Complex Real?” Britannica), but Greene draws on it for one regression technique, Oedipal Regression, which involves the seducer acting as the parent who provides both love and discipline. It involves taking a romantic interest back to their childhood and using their negative feelings toward a parent rather than acting out the Oedipus complex.

Freud’s theory of resistance is based on therapy with patients who resisted discussing repressed topics, then worked through this resistance. Greene suggests that seducers ignore a person’s resistance to seduction. He argues that “it is normal in the course of a seduction to encounter resistance in the process,” but that this “resistance is a sign that the other person’s emotions are engaged” (323). This aligns with his views of seduction as a psychological process and the need to bring out a person’s repressed desires, but it does not align completely with Freud because seducers’ romantic interests do not “work through” their resistance; seducers ignore their resistance and continue toward their goal of sex. Greene does not explicitly state that his ideas about resistance draw on Freud or any other psychological theory.