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97 pages 3 hours read

Farah Ahmedi, Tamim Ansary

The Other Side of the Sky

Nonfiction | Autobiography / Memoir | Adult | Published in 2005

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Chapters 14-15Chapter Summaries & Analyses

Chapter 14 Summary: “Arriving in America”

Ahmedi and her mother traveled to New York with four other Afghan families. The others remained in New York, while Ahmedi and her mother continued to Chicago. Upon arrival in Chicago, the staff from the World Relief charity were late meeting them at the airport because of traffic, so Ahmedi and her mother found their luggage on their own. They did not know what to do at that point, however, and they were exhausted and scared. Soon, the World Relief staff arrived and took them to where they were to stay for a few weeks. Ahmedi’s mother was increasingly fearful that it was all a ruse meant to enslave them to an American family, misinterpreting each step of the way in light of this fear. It continued this way after they settled with their host family. The American couple who were hosting them could not speak Farsi, and Ahmedi and her mother could not speak English, so they mistook every little thing that the American family did to try to make them feel at home as confirmation that they were going to be held hostage. They huddled in their room with the door locked.

Eventually, their host took them to the World Relief office, where an Afghan case worker agreed to bring them over to her house for lunch. The morning after they returned to the Americans’ house, Ahmedi’s mother had a serious asthma attack and was rushed to the hospital. While she was there, she had an allergic reaction to medication and went into a coma for a week before eventually coming back to consciousness. Meanwhile, World Relief had found them an apartment of their own to live in, and after Ahmedi’s mother’s release from the hospital, they went to their new home.

Chapter 15 Summary: “Discovering America”

Ahmedi writes that their first few months adjusting to life in America was consumed by filling out official paperwork and going to government offices and other agencies. This meant a seemingly endless process of waiting in lines, answering people’s questions, and signing documents. The case worker form World Relief assisted them in this process. They had to apply for refugee status, for public aid, for subsidized housing, and to get into a program to receive medical care.

Everyone treated Ahmedi as the head of household, even though she was only 14 at the time. Because it was late spring, she could not start school, but she had begun picking up bits of English here and there, and she started an English as a Second Language (ESL) course at a local church. The maze of navigating a foreign culture with its fast-paced lifestyle was overwhelming. Ahmedi’s mother leaned on her, and Ahmedi leaned on their case worker. One day, she called her case worker for help with something, and the case worker said that Ahmedi should go ahead and take care of it, that World Relief has done all that it can do for them. Ahmedi and her mother were now on their own.

Chapters 14-15 Analysis

In these chapters, Ahmedi shows that security is multi-faceted. By reaching the US, they escaped the physical dangers of war and repression in Afghanistan and the various forms of threat posed by poverty and social isolation as refugees in Pakistan. In their first months in the US, they still felt unsafe and vulnerable. They felt trapped inside their language “like a rabbit in a cage” (189). Whenever they needed to leave their apartment, everything felt menacing and confusing. Physically, too, day-to-day life was arduous because they had no access to transportation, and the American suburb in which they were living was spread out. A trip to the store was an all-day excursion for an asthmatic woman and a girl with one prosthetic leg and one fused leg—and because they could only buy what they could carry, they had to venture out frequently. There was no immediate relief to the stress of insecurity—only a very gradual easing as time went by. 

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