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Farah Ahmedi, Tamim AnsaryA modern alternative to SparkNotes and CliffsNotes, SuperSummary offers high-quality Study Guides with detailed chapter summaries and analysis of major themes, characters, and more. For select classroom titles, we also provide Teaching Guides with discussion and quiz questions to prompt student engagement.
One day, in the middle of their first summer in the US, Alyce Litz came to meet Ahmedi and her mother. Litz was a volunteer with World Relief. She began to tutor Ahmedi in English once a week, but before long, the two were speaking and seeing each other regularly. Litz and her husband, John, provided Ahmedi and her mother with many of the necessities that they could not get on their own. They installed a phone and a television, and brought utensils, pots, and pans, and took Ahmedi and her mother clothes shopping. Alyce regularly gave them rides to appointments and to the grocery store. Ahmedi writes that the conveniences changed their lives, but not as much as Alyce’s friendship. Alyce came to see her almost daily, alleviating Ahmedi’s profound loneliness.
In addition to friendship and companionship, Ahmedi’s English improved rapidly, and her confidence with American culture increased accordingly. By accompanying them to doctor appointments and grocery shopping, Alyce saved them from the medical miscommunications that could potentially have serious consequences and from the seedy taxi drivers that they were dependent upon to get anywhere. Alyce also took Ahmedi places around the region to introduce her to new things. With Alyce, Ahmedi got to be the center of attention with a caring adult capable of supporting her development.
Ahmedi is finally able to go to school. She was apprehensive about entering the large American high school, but when the big day finally came, she had no American classmates at all. Her classmates were entirely ESL students from many different countries. When she would walk the hallways, all the American students ignored her. At first, it felt good to be anonymous. School was plenty challenging, however, since Ahmedi had never learned to read and write in her native language, much less in English, and she had only formal math training up to the second grade. Through her life experience, she had picked up addition and subtraction, as well as basic multiplication and division.
Ahmedi progressed quickly during her first year and made it to pre-algebra toward the end of the year. She continued in summer school after the school year ended, where she had to take algebra because it was the only summer math class on offer. She struggled mightily, but stuck it out, ultimately failing the class and retaking it during the school year. Much of what she was learning provoked comparisons and reflections on her background in Afghanistan. She made connections between the myths people in Pakistan spread about Afghans being brought to America to become slaves and the actual history of slavery in the US. When she learned that America was built by refugees (and their enslaved Africans), Ahmedi marveled at how far it had come. On the other hand, she wondered why Afghanistan, which was a comparatively ancient civilization, had fallen so far behind. She observed that in America, people have ambition and want to work hard; they raise their voices and express their beliefs. By contrast, in Afghanistan, everybody is afraid and nobody dares raise their voice.
Ahmedi’s narrative has moved into the stage where she no longer feels that her survival and security hang in the balance. These chapters chart her transition into an adjustment period. Learning the ropes at school was significant in this respect because it allows her independence within a relatively safe environment and support to build her confidence. The support and friendship of the Litzs’ friendship, of course, made this transition smoother than it probably would have been otherwise. These two things, settling into school and Litzs’ presence, remind us that she Ahmedi is still a child at this point in the narrative. She writes the first two-thirds of the book, while reflecting on her earlier childhood, with the tone of a much older and wiser person. When the narrative shifts to high school, catching up to the actual age of the narrator, innocence returns to the story. The earlier chapters are framed through the wisdom of her experiences.
Moreover, the war refugee experience is something that Ahmedi can only yet process in straightforward terms. She is the protagonist throughout the entire book, but it is not until the later chapters that she is able to become a child again. Litz makes this possible. While Ahmedi continues to take care of her mother, Litz takes care of Ahmedi in ways that Ahmedi’s mother is unable to do—and indeed, in ways that would never have happened if they had stayed in Afghanistan, war or no war.
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