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In Amarillo, Texas, while Nhan makes out with Flower Girl, Quang talks with Hippie Dude. They’re all high, and when Quang apologizes that Nhan is making out with Flower Girl, Hippie Dude says she isn’t his girlfriend but his wife and that they practice free love. He then apologizes to Quang for the US involvement in Vietnam, saying that he protested the war. He tells Quang, “You’re welcome” (58). Quang feels offended and angered by Hippie Dude’s comments, telling him that he doesn’t understand. When Hippie Dude says he lost a brother in the war and understands Quang’s pain, Quang says he has no idea. Quang begins singing to the cue of “Lost a Brother” about the differences between disagreeing with a war and actually fighting one. He sings about losing his family and his country and about how fighting a war with words and theory isn’t experiencing real violence.
At Fort Chaffee, Quang and Tong sit in bed after sex. When Quang says that they made love, Tong questions whether he even knows her name. He can’t prove that he does. She tells him that what they shared was merely emotional release. He criticizes her attitude, but she sees a wedding ring on his hand, calling him an asshole. He admits to this, but when Tong criticizes her mother, Quang defends Huong, saying that she just wants to help Khue. He’s shocked when Tong tells him that Khue is a fully grown man, not a toddler as he assumed. Quang then tells Tong about his kids, only knowing their ages and defending himself by saying that being in the military kept him from seeing them. He says that they are the reason that he must return to Vietnam, though Tong disagrees, saying it’s too dangerous to return, since they have no information about what the communists are doing.
Tong tells Quang not to die when he returns to Vietnam since she likes sleeping with him. As they begin to kiss again, Huong enters the room and is horrified to find them together. She yells at Tong for being engaged to another, but Tong claims it doesn’t matter because Quang is married. Huong kicks Quang out and admonishes Tong for sleeping with him, warning her to stay away from him. Tong tells her mother that it’s a one-time event, but the more Huong warns her that he’s married, leaving, and will take Huong with him, the more Tong wants him. Soon, they’re meeting each other frequently in quick scenes that show them working on pottery together (Quang one-upping Bobby, who holds a boombox for Tong, with an even bigger boombox) and even participating in a dance number inspired by “Dirty Dancing.” Throughout these quick scenes, Huong and Nhan try to separate Tong and Quang as much as possible, but they fail. Finally, upon seeing them slow-dancing earnestly, Nhan leaves them be.
Quang and Nhan continue driving, now passing through Albuquerque, New Mexico. Nhan falls in love with the scenery of the desert around them and makes Quang pull over to enjoy it. On the side of the road, they light up a joint and smoke. Nhan cautiously mentions that he believes they should stay in the US instead of trying to return to Vietnam, saying that the US has good things, like burritos and weed. Quang agrees that not being shot at constantly is also good but denies Nhan’s suggestion that Tong is a reason to stay. Quang insists that he and Tong share no deep feelings for each other and, despite enjoying her nice laugh, he must leave her and return home. He tells Nhan that he can’t truly live without his children and must find his way back to them, feeling a force pulling him to them. Nhan stops arguing with him and tells him that he loves him as his best friend. Quang credits the marijuana for such a sentiment but expresses love back.
In a short sequence, Huong blocks Bobby from coming inside to give Tong a flower before turning to Tong, Nhan, and Quang eating together, with Nhan in between the lovers. Nhan is incredulous that the two of them just have sex but have developed no strong feelings. Nhan tells Tong that she’s beautiful and laments that he doesn’t sleep with women who look like her, and she tells him that despite her looks, she has a bad personality. She claims that she doesn’t want kids, and when Nhan then suggests that he also doesn’t want kids as a ploy to gain her affection, she tells him that she actually does. Annoyed, Nhan leaves and Quang tells Tong that he likes her. Tong warns him against falling for her, but he claims he only likes her as a friend does. She then tells him that it’s good he feels that way, since she’s having sex with two other men. When Quang grows angry, she asks what’s wrong given that he doesn’t love her, and he quickly asserts that he’s only concerned about STIs. He keeps asking her about the men, and she admits that there aren’t any and that she only mentioned them to test Quang.
Quang questions why him falling for her would be so bad, despite his marriage, and she tells him that it’s because she’ll never fall for him. When he questions why she wants a life with no love, she tells him that it gives her freedom, and that freedom from any kind of love drove her to leave Vietnam so that she wouldn’t be tied to someone like her brother. Quang tells her that despite this, she still lost her home, but she asserts that the home she knew wasn’t great: The house was poor, and she lacked opportunity. She adds that she has independence in the US and the opportunity to build a new, independent life for herself. She tells him that she doesn’t want to be a princess taken care of by a man like so many other women in Vietnam, and that she likes that they can be together without “love” because she can maintain her independence. When Quang hints that he thinks she’ll change her mind, she pushes back, telling him to wait for it. When he questions how he’ll pass the time, she grabs him and they leave, kissing.
Quang sings as a means of release, to vent his inner frustrations and trauma in the face of an unstable present and uncertain future. While much of this uncertainty stems from his separation from his family, certain frustrations arise from facing the disconnect between popular sentiment toward the war in the US and his own experiences fighting it. For Quang, the war was essential in protecting his homeland and family, but he finds that many American citizens oppose it and believe that the US acted wrongfully. When Hippie Dude apologizes to Quang, Quang feels anger boil up because he must confront someone who believes that their opinions of war and violence are just as valuable as his own:
SO WHEN YA TELL ME YA THINK IT’S ALL BULLSHIT
YOU’RE TELLING ME THAT MY FAMILY WASN’T WORTH IT
EVERY STORY, HOWEVER GORY, HAS ANOTHER SIDE
‘CAUSE YOU DISAGREE DON’T MEAN YOUR OPINION’S RIGHT (60).
Highlighting the theme of Exploring Inner Conflict Through Music, Quang vents his resentment for Hippie Dude and his view of the war. Hippie Dude’s easy dismissal of American involvement and staunch belief that the war was wrong is at direct odds with Quang’s own experiences. Quang sees the war as essential to protecting the freedoms of Vietnam and his own family on a personal level. He rages against the implicit dismissal of his own experiences and traumas in favor of someone who didn’t fight. He feels as though his side of the story, as a Vietnamese soldier and citizen, isn’t heard or valued.
Throughout the play, many characters struggle with their new lives in the refugee camp and find it difficult to adjust to a future that doesn’t include those left behind in Vietnam. Of the many challenges facing these characters, one of the most thematically impactful to The Complexity of the Refugee Experience is the inability to know what’s happening back in Vietnam: “It’s not like we can call someone up for an update. For all we know, everyone in South Vietnam is locked up in their death camps. You know, the very opposite of ‘all good in the hood’” (63). Tong says this to Quang in response to his plan to return to Vietnam, expressing the belief that silence from home is a bad sign. The refugees have no way to communicate with family members still in Vietnam, and no news is emerging to help construct a view of what life is like there, making Quang’s return a risky gamble. Each of the characters is stuck in between, and not knowing what’s happening at home makes it even more difficult for them to begin forging new lives, wracked by uncertainty and anxiety over their families and pasts.
Quang’s journey with Nhan across the country is driven by his need to return to his family, though many try and convince him not to go. The primary reasons that Nhan tries to sway him against it are the uncertainty of what awaits them in Vietnam and the resistance they’ll likely face from Americans. Quang acknowledges these facts when Nhan brings them up but fights back against them, too committed to his purpose:
I’ll be honest, bro. I have no idea if this plan will really work. For all we know, the Americans will shoot us on sight if we tell them we wanna go back, but I know I’m supposed to be trying to get there. I’m supposed to be a dad. That’s what I’m supposed to be doing (68).
Quang’s belief that he must return to his family thematically exemplifies why The Strength of Familial Love is the most powerful guiding force in the play. His commitment to his family and his dream of living his life as a father is such a key part of his identity that he ignores the clear and obvious dangers and pitfalls of his plan. He fully believes in what he does and doesn’t see any other purpose in his life than being there for his wife and two children.
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